John W. Loy

GLEN HAVEN – John Wayne Loy, age 52, of Glen Haven, passed away on June 16, 2026, unexpectedly due to complications from multiple infections. He was born on October 15, 1973, the only child of Benay and Happy Jack Loy. Benay had five children from a previous marriage: Mike (Tina) Paulson, East Dubuque, IL, Cynthia (Kent) Kirch-Henderson, Queen Creek, AZ, Dale (Lisa) Paulsen, Dubuque, IA, Bryan (Linda) Paulsen, Cuba City, WI, and Sherri Kubly of Edgewood, IA. John fell in love with the Mississippi River at a young age. That love turned him into a nature enthusiast throughout his lifetime. John had the ability to fix anything from electrical to auto mechanics. He was fascinated with anything that had a motor. In fact, if there was no riding lawn mower, someone else would need to cut the grass.

John and Tammi met through a blind date that was set up by John’s mother and Tammi’s grandmother. That blind date was the beginning of a 33-year marriage. The two were often described as only having eyes for each other, like there was no one else in the room. John always had time for Tammi; he would always come running when she called his name.

Joel David is the only child between the couple. John fell in love with his son the day he was born and that love never faltered. To him, Joel could do no wrong. They had many of the same interests from fishing to making deliveries together with the semi. In 2013, Joel brought Jolene Molzof home. In time, John loved her like the daughter he never had. He would joke that she was stronger than his son. John stepped into the father figure role for Jolene, and they grew to have their own special bond.

Friendships were important to John; he cherished the time he spent with those he loved. At times it was difficult for John to express his feelings, but he showed his love in many ways. John’s love language was to give a hug, show up to visit, give a helping hand, or show his quick-witted humor. John had a way about him that made everyone feel comfortable. He was soft spoke, used manners and was a good listener. John could make a new friend from a Facebook marketplace transaction.

Over the years, John has had many jobs; he worked in warehouses, call centers, manufacturing, became a welder, underground utilities, but John was most proud of being a commercial driver. John drove over-the-road, regional, hotline, milk truck, and he ended his driving career driving dump truck, which he really enjoyed. John decided to slow down when he took a job at Quality Inn and Suites in Prairie du Chien along with his wife as front desk Hotel clerks. He enjoyed meeting new people and his personality made everyone feel at home. John became part of the Quality Inn family very quickly and he worked there until his recent hospitalization.

John was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer on December 8, 2025. The tumor was classified as 1a. The plan was twelve rounds of chemotherapy and then it would be totally curative with a Whipple procedure. John and Tammi felt lucky to have what felt like a new beginning. Chemotherapy treatments were held every other week. John and Tammi used this time to dream about the future, to heal, try new things, and grow closer than they have ever been. John competed eight rounds before falling ill with sepsis in the blood. John was sent to UW Hospital in Madison with IV antibiotics. He had an acute kidney issue, a growth of infection on his heart, and a PEG-tube. John was in the hospital for a month and a half. Once he was stable for three days, he was allowed to go home. Although it only lasted four days, he was able to see his two granddaughters, the sky, growing fields, friends, and his beloved Mississippi River. He was able to hear the sweet laughter of his family and the birds. He was able to go on a road trip with his son, smiling because they were spending the afternoon together. John was able to give kisses and to pet his dogs Tully, Cooper and Murray. He slept in a regular bed with his wife, laid on the couch and relaxed in the recliner. John was determined to beat this infection and cancer.

John left this world in the early morning of June 16, 2026, with his wife Tammi by his side. The following day it was found his PEG tube had contracted two new infections that his current treatment would not fight.

John leaves behind his loving wife Tammi, their son, Joel and daughter-in-law, Jolene, two granddaughters: Juniper “Shortcake” who is three and Jentry “Pudge” who is ten months. Whenever John was around his granddaughters there was a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eyes. He loved watching them grow and change. John also left behind his siblings, Quality Inn family, and many friends.

John was preceded in death by both sets of grandparents, his father and just recently, his mother.

The family would like to thank all of those who sent messages, cards, and texts, financial assistance and especially prayers. We ask for continued prayers as we navigate though this difficult time.

A private family viewing took place on June 20, 2026. A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. Kramer-Grau Funeral Homes & Crematory in Bloomington is assisting the family.

Material things never mattered to John. He was an old soul that focused on spending time with those in his life. His family is honored that John touched so many lives by just being himself. May John’s spirit shine through in those that knew him.

You were my soul mate and the love of my life. I will miss you for the rest of my days.

Love, Wifey